Let us define the word
discipline; develop behaviour by instruction and practice; especially to teach
self-control.
Simply said; it is to
make up your bed in the morning without your mother telling you to do so.
It is that self-movement
behind your decisions, meaning if today you decide to start jogging every
morning at 6am, then you need the discipline to wake up at 6am every day. Get dressed
and go jogging.
What do I mean by the
self-movement behind your decisions? Well this is that little person in your
head, that’s not really there because it is you, your essence, that makes a
decision so you can actually make a decision – meaning practically living it
and following through on it, otherwise known as a useless thought that is just bugging
you for it shows you your lack of discipline.
How many times in your
life have you ever had those late-night-bed-time-thoughts? Where you wake up
the next morning with nothing changed, but in your mind the previous night you
were so motivated and ready to take on the world, to be a better person, to
help others, to achieve your dreams, but, just nothing the following day. That
happens because you were only in your mind, instead of sleeping, to where you
can wake up the next day, be disciplined toward yourself, and actually do these
things you did not think about, and change your world.
You learn this new way of
discipline by starting small, setting up a task for yourself to do every day
for the next 3 to 4 weeks, for instance, looking at myself, I started with
making up my bed, I succeeded. After this small task you’ll start to see, hey I
can do it, and so you start with your second small task, let’s say you never ate breakfast in the morning, so now, again, start small. Eat a light meal
every morning, get that metabolism working.
After this, you’ll get that realisation again, again! You’ll see that you can do anything that is possible,
in the physical, as here, as YOU, as YOU are making these decision now, making (creating)
that self-movement, and so apply it in you practical everyday life. This new sense of
discipline obviously requires you to take small steps - as one will not jump
into the middle of the ocean not knowing how to swim yet. So, Instead of losing
hours of sleep thinking about motivational shit, and not gaining anything from
it, except for disappointment the day after, go to sleep, get your rest in and get your discipline in order.
Thanks Julian, cool perspective on discipline!
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